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What to wear to a wedding.
Start with the dress code on the invitation, then think about the venue and the season. Here is how to get it right — and where to find the dress.
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Decode the dress code
| Dress code | What it means | Wear |
|---|---|---|
| Black tie | Formal evening event | A floor-length gown or a very elegant cocktail dress |
| Formal / black tie optional | Dressy, but floor length is optional | A long dress, a dressy midi, or a sleek jumpsuit |
| Cocktail | Polished and festive | A knee-length or midi dress, or tailored separates |
| Semi-formal | Smart, a step below cocktail | A midi dress or a dressy skirt and top |
| Casual / beach | Relaxed but still put-together | A sundress or flowy midi with sandals |
Three easy formulas
Garden or daytime wedding
- Floral or pastel midi dress
- Block heels or wedges
- Light wrap for the evening
Evening reception
- Satin slip or jewel-tone midi
- Strappy heels
- Small clutch and statement earrings
Not a dress person
- Wide-leg jumpsuit or dressy trouser set
- Heeled sandals
- Structured mini bag
Guest etiquette
Do
- Follow the dress code on the invitation
- Check the venue — grass, sand and stairs change the shoe
- Bring a layer for air-conditioned or evening venues
Don’t
- Wear white, ivory or anything that could read as bridal
- Go more casual than the couple asked for
- Wear brand-new shoes you have never walked in
Frequently asked questions
What colors should a wedding guest avoid?
Avoid white, ivory and cream so you never look bridal. Some cultures also avoid black or red at weddings — if in doubt, ask or choose a color.
Can I wear black to a wedding?
For most Western evening and formal weddings, yes — a black cocktail dress or gown is classic. For daytime or casual weddings, a color usually feels more festive.
What should I wear to a wedding with no dress code?
Aim for semi-formal: a midi dress or dressy separates you could wear to a nice dinner.
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